If You Suspect Domestic Violence

• Tell him/her that he/she has a right not to be abused.
• Tell her you know and are her friend; she is not alone.
• Help her find a safe place with you or somewhere else when she seems ready to leave.
• Do not lose patience.
• Help her find legal, financial, medical, or counseling services to help her. (Contact us or see our Helpful Links)
• Help her see herself as a competent, lovable person.
• Even if she returns to the abusive spouse/partner, this is not a rejection of you.  She needs your friendship and support now more than ever.