There are 32 questions and answers below. After reading each question, select the answer that best represents your feelings about the question and enter it's point value in the box on that line. At the end of the quiz your total will be shown along with what that total means.
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To learn how serious your abuse has been, check your total against the numbers below.
0 -14 - Considered Non-Abusive
15 -36 Considered Moderately Abusive
37 -93 Considered Seriously Abusive 94 or more DANGEROUSLY ABUSIVE - PLEASE SEEK HELP
Q) Does your partner check up on you and want to know where you are at all times?
A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Is your partner jealous, and does he/she accuse you of having affairs? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner tell you that you are stupid, lazy, ugly, a rotten cook, a failure as a spouse or parent, not good in bed, etc.? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner call you obscene names? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner tell you that no one else could ever love you? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner make fun of you in front of other people? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner try to keep you from seeing family or friends? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner control the family money so that you have to account for every penny and/or beg him/her for it? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner forbid or demand that you work, or, if you want to work, does he/she make it difficult for you? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner tell you that no one would ever hire you? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner try to keep you from driving by taking your keys or part of the engine? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner have dramatic mood swings? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner become angrier when he/she drinks? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner try to make you have sex when you don’t want to? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner force or pressure you to commit sexual acts that you are not comfortable with or consider unnatural? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever broken or damaged your home, possessions, property or dumped garbage in your home? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever hurt or killed a pet in order to frighten or punish you? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner ever lock you in a room or out of the house? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner ever push you, shove you against walls, or restrain you by holding you to prevent you from leaving a room? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner ever force you to stay awake? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner ever slap, punch, lick, bite, choke, pull your hair or burn you? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner ever hurt you with an object or weapon (gun, knife, cigarette, rope, belt, etc.)? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever threatened you with an object or weapon? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner endanger you or your children by driving recklessly? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Does your partner neglect you or the children when you are sick or in need of medical help? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever threatened to kill him/herself, you, your children, or anyone else? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever been violent toward your children? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever molested your children sexually or behaved toward them in an inappropriate, flirtatious way? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Is your partner ever violent to other people outside the family? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Have you ever had to call the police or wanted to because you feared your partner? A) Often=6 | Sometimes=5 | Rarely=4 | Never=0
Q) Has your partner ever been arrested for violence? A) Yes=6 | No=0
Q) When your partner senses that you cannot stand the abusive behavior any longer and are thinking about leaving, does he/she try to manipulate you into staying by making you feel guilty, threatening suicide etc.? A) Often=3 | Sometimes=2 | Rarely=1 | Never=0
